We've all been there before. I know I have and there's no shame in admitting 
it. You're in bed with a beautiful woman in naught but your boxers and stripped 
of all your defenses. You think things are going well, the action is hot and 
heavy, and the two of you have waited long enough.


Just about when you're ready to pull out the condom, she says those dreaded 
words, "You know we're NOT having sex, right?" Seriously, the two of you are 
practically naked together and all of a sudden she's being coy and 
non-committal? Is she playing mind games with you?


No, she just has Last Minute Resistance (LMR) and it's your job to keep your 
cool, not play the guilt or blame game, and press forward with these three 
advanced anti-LMR tactics that are guaranteed to get her to say YES! in bed with
  you. At every confidence & seduction bootcamp I've ever done when it comes 
to the E-Phase (Evaluate, Extract & Escalate) I always reminded students 
that LMR (Last Minute Resistance or Reservations) is not anyone's fault: It is 
the biology of women kick starting their last-ditch attempts at ASD (Anti-Slut 
Defense).


This is to say that instincts tell a girl that she's not ready to have sex 
yet (after such a short period of time) because of all the hazards it presents 
to her mind and body:

1.  Pregnancy

1. Abandonment
2. Social Repercussions (ie being called a slut)

 

Of course, because a dating expert, we teach them methods to get around that 
obsolete biological response by assuaging her logical fears and enabling her 
physical desires so she becomes absolutely hot and crazy for you. The methods we
  teach in group bootcamps and private 1-on-1s were always very useful to me and,
  of the three methods we teach, I've almost always had to use one or another to 
disengage a girl's LMR.


Recently, I got to meet up with an absolutely stunning girl I had met online 
a long time ago (a friend of a friend). Super hot. She's a gorgeous, Latin 
brunette and I am currently looking at a picture of her in a swimsuit calendar 
on my wall. That hot. However, she's also very sceptical about sexual 
relationships and has always held me at arms length.


We had talked about sex many times and she was always shut off from, what 
other girls call, "My intense charm". Incredibly hard to gain any sexual ground 
with, she had only had sex with 3 people before and was devout about how she 
needed to be in a relationship with someone for a long time before she would 
ever engage in anything coital. In fact, I thought it would be detrimental to 
our friendship to even try to engage in physicality on the first night we met, 
so I didn't even plan on pushing things.


Because I have the skills that I do, I am not starving for sex, so I had no 
problem slow-gaming this girl. That being said, hopping into bed with me, even 
if just to fall asleep - like this time, starts my biological gears turning and,
  much like a military machine, these gears are connected to PUA cogs that engage
  the skills that I have practiced and perfected all over the world. I was out to
  destroy LMR and it was completely subconscious.


Though I had to use all three of our methods on one of the toughest 
situations I've been in, I'll tell you how I did it, step-by-step.


Step 1) Preemptive Anti-Last Minute Resistance:


This is the step we use when first dealing with the idea of LMR. Pre-emptive 
measures are those that we dispense in order to combat even the thought of her 
needing to reject us.


For instance, if you tell a girl she has to sleep on the couch, or that you 
have work early in the morning, it will subconsciously register as a sort of 
rejection. After all, if you're telling her you have to get to bed early, it's 
clear that you don't have hours of animalistic sex in mind, right? In this case,
  I flat-out told her that I wouldn't have sex with her because she'd already had
  too much to drink.


At the time, she was drunk, but not drunk enough that I would question her 
morals. In fact, I think that alcohol played little-to-no part in the decision 
making process. She actually tried to combat my rejection by rejecting me (e.g. 
"Well, I'm not going to have sex with you, anyway."). It was important that I 
stop her before she made it about rejecting me, thereby losing control.


To do this, I actually just said, "Stop. This isn't about you rejecting me or
  about me rejecting you. I am just not going to have sex with you, so appreciate
  that we think the same way and stop being defensive." This pretty much shut her
  up and gave her time to stew on the idea that she didn't have to object to my 
sexual advances, which was clearly something she didn't get often.


She did not like this idea.


Step 2) Cold Anti-Last Minute Resistance:


This is the standard Freeze-Out Technique we've all read about in The Game, 
the purpose of which is to turn her on a bit and stop when she says no, leaving 
her, essentially, stewing in her own juices.


Because this tactic was invented for this type of girl (super hot, generally 
valued for her looks), it went completely by the book: When she said "no", I 
stopped, rolled over, and checked my phone. She asked me, "You're mad, aren't 
you?" I replied, "No. I'm not mad, I just respect when a woman says no. Don't 
worry. We're not having sex tonight, anyway." Big smile. She starts fooling 
around again. Wash. Rinse. Repeat.


In between a few of these bouts, I also brought a bit of pre-emptive LMR 
Logic in, something I'm extremely good at:

1. I talked about how I was happy just kissing her, and that my desire for
   sex  wasn't a biological need, it was an appreciation for her and a desire
   to be  closer to her.

1. I also talked about how this was the only June whatever, 2010 that we were 
   ever going to get and we are both the most attractive we will ever be, so we 
   might as well make the best of it.


2. When she brought up trust, I told her that I can't earn trust unless she 
   lets me prove that I'm trustworthy.


3. When she brought up other girls, I told her that if I wanted to be in bed 
   with other girls, I would be, but I was in bed with her, at that moment, with 
   the world at our fingertips.

This is all very powerful stuff and, frankly, I believe everything I said to 
her. I did (and still do) care about her immensely and was (and still am) 
extremely attracted to her. I knew I wouldn't hurt her and that I wasn't 
interested in sex just to use her, but that I genuinely wanted to share a 
no-holds-barred experience with her because of how much I enjoy her as a 
person.


I am not just, "Saying stuff to fuck her" and I'll admit that to anyone that 
asks.


Step 3) Hot Anti-Last Minute Resistance:


The purpose of this last stage of Anti-LMR is to turn her on so much, that 
she's not using her logical mind. All the, "Will I get pregnant?" and "Does this
  make me a slut?" thoughts are gone and she is only doing what her body tells
her  is good for her.


In this case, her body will want as much of me as possible, and I'll tell you
  why. After all the thoughts were stirred and all my cards were on the table, I 
told her I was completely fine just kissing her. She told me she wouldn't even 
take off her shirt and I told her that was totally cool by me, but did that mean
  all skin showing was fair game? "Yes," She said.


I then proceed to:

•  I kissed her neck and down across her collar bone. 

• Over her tank-top strap and down her arm.
• I kissed down her upper-arm and began to nibble at the inside of her 
  elbow.
• She exhaled, heavily. "Okay, I'm turned on."
• She quickly pulled off her tank-top.
• I had a much larger playing field, but I still had to take it slow.
• I'll spare you the details, but there was a lot of inner-thigh licking and 
  nibbling and blowing cold air over warm, wet spots and suddenly, she was begging
    for me to get inside of her.

I told her, several times, that, "I'm not going to fuck you because I made a 
promise to you."


Pretty soon she was on top of me, grinding her pubic bone against me and 
peeling off the rest of her clothing. The more I said "No", the more she begged.
  After I finally knew she wasn't doing it to prove a point, I let her have it 
and, four orgasms later, we moved to the other bed in the room (hotel, of 
course), on account of having destroyed the first one. We teaches this stuff 
because we've used it and knows it works. I teach this stuff because I've used 
it and I know it works. Use it because we teach it and it works.


Author: JT Tran
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Some guys question the idea that alpha males have an easier time seducing women than non-alpha males and I guess I understand where that scepticism comes from. Just coming from a logical viewpoint, it might not make a lot of sense as 
to why it would be so much easier for an alpha male to be able to seduce a woman, but it is something that you are going to see a lot of evidence of, if you get down in the trenches and see what happens in the bars and the clubs. It's not the guys who make great partners from a logical point of view that end up attracting the attention of women, it's the guys who have that natural alpha male vibe.

 Here are some reasons why:


1. Alpha males don't wait for a woman to come to them, they go and approach her.

 In a dream world, it might be nice to imagine that being the guy, women would  be the ones to approach you. Now, that does happen to some guys every now and again. However, those are almost always still the alpha males. The reality is that if you want to be able to get women into bed, you can't wait for them to come to you. You'll be waiting a LONG time in most cases. And if you don't give off the impression that you really are an alpha male, chances are it will never come.


2. They don't bring the party down, they make it livelier.


What a lot of men don't realize is that when they go to approach a woman with horrible energy and equally horrible body language, they bring down the party. They are a drag. Guys who are alpha males don't do that. They make things more 
fun, they make them livelier and women like that. Women like to go out and come across a guy who is going to make their night more fun and more enjoyable. And the more enjoyable and fun that you make the night for her, the more likely it is that she is going to want to end the night with you.


3. They don't fear escalation, they embrace it.


If you are the kind of guy who is a little fearful of having to take things to that next level with a woman, that is something that has to change like right now. You can't expect the woman to put the moves on you, you have to be able to put the moves on her. Alpha males are leaders and they know how to lead a woman  into seduction and that is the thing that you have to be able to do. You can't fear escalation, you have to want to escalate and enjoy the process.



Author: Chris G. Tyler
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It happens to you every time.. You see "the" girl across the room and your temperature starts to rise, your 
hands get sweaty and your heart starts pounding. You wish you could go talk to her, get to know  her and ask her out on a date, but your gripping fear of  rejection stops you. So you wait and wait, and sure enough you see another guy start to talk to her and she is smiling, laughing and having a good time with that other guy. Another opportunity lost.


If you've experienced this scenario and feel you are someone who just can't seem to gather the courage to
meet a girl you're interested in, have no fear - help is on the way.  From my experience, I'm convinced that the very first step 
that every guy needs to make when it comes to meeting women is to "Find Your  Inner Alpha." Alpha in this case is not about anything the Greek alphabet; I'm talking about how to become an "Alpha Male." An Alpha Male is a guy who is unapologetic about his immediate desires and goals. He is  outwardly confidant, opinionated, and not afraid to take risks in the
face of adversity. Alpha Males exude an air of masculinity and self-assurance that is felt when they enter a room. The best example would be James Bond.


I know right now you're thinking, "Well that's just not me." Well, I know that, and that's why I'm writing this. There are of course natural Alpha Males who just have "it' and they have no problem meeting women. I'm saying that even if you are not a natural, there are a few concepts to think about that will help  you change your perception of the dating game and will exponentially improve your ability to approach "the" girl across the room. Let me be clear that I don't subscribe to "pick-up artist" routines. Whether or not those routines work will not change the fact that you have the wrong state of mind. Tapping into your Inner Alpha is all about a state of mind and an understanding of what many women are attracted to. OK, enough background, let's get to it.


She's out of my league


The heart pounding and sweaty palms are a simple reaction to a state of mind that is telling
you, "She's out of my league." Let me say to you once and for all that "NO ONE IS OUT OF ANYONE'S LEAGUE." To get you to understand this I have to put your self-esteem on trial. The bottom line is that if you don't like  you, how can you expect someone else to like you too? If you are not enjoying life, how can you expect someone to want to share their life with you? So, the first baby step here is to first like yourself and start enjoying life. Most  girls don't want to get to know a constant downer. Once you have this state of mind intact, you will be amazed at how this will naturally draw people, especially women,
toward you like a magnet.


There is nothing to fear but fear itself

The reason Alpha Males are so successful with women is because they have absolutely no fear of rejection. Why? Because at the simplest level if you like who you are and are enjoying life, then you really don't have anything to lose.  The mind set for you to adopt here is that it's not your loss if the girl rejects you; it's actually her loss for not wanting to be a part of your awesome life.
 
If you think of it that way, than you can brush any girl's rejection off without a second thought. Ending your fear once and for all is the most liberating feeling because you know that you have only something to gain. It's not about being an extrovert, but it is being comfortable in your own skin and seeing everything as an opportunity instead of a potential disaster.


You don't need her to be happy

Probably the most paralyzing thing for men is they think that their "manhood" will be shattered if they don't get the girl they want. This thought alone is what keeps most men from approaching women; it is essentially ego damage control. Men falsely believe that approaching a woman is like a minefield and all it takes is one wrong step and the girl will detonate on them. This false mind set is what makes men tread far too lightly when meeting women and they try to do and say everything just right to please her. If you think like this, you have lost the battle before it's even begun. The reality is that most women are  extremely
attracted to men who give off the impression that they don't need her to be happy.

Once a woman senses this, she is the one who becomes curious as to  why you are so content with yourself and your life. Alpha Males have a keen ability to make a woman feel that they have to meet his standard. This mind set is the complete
opposite of what most men do and that is to try to live up to  her standard by trying to say all the right things, give too many compliments,  offer to buy her a drink, and all the other Beta Male ploys that typically fail and result in rejection.


Nice guys finish last!


If you are constantly striking out and wondering why the bad boys always end up with the girls you have to understand that their success is not because they are bad, it's because they are Alpha. Most bad boys are risk takers by nature, and they usually say exactly what's on their mind and don't  care what anyone thinks about them. While they may be destructive in their relationships, the key  to their approach success is that most women are initially attracted to a guy 
who is not afraid to put all his chips on the table and just go for it.  I know it's easier said then done, but again the Alpha mind set is all about exuding a confidence about yourself that is undeniable to women. Now go find you  Inner Alpha and the girls will find you!

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Kristopher Joseph

First impressions are very important, because women will judge everything you say, or do, through the lens of the first contact. Since, you never get a second  chance to make a first impression it's important to be prepared at all times. You  never know when, or where, you will meet the love of your life. Here are some  ideas I want you to think about...

 What does it mean to be prepared at all times?
 
Your attitude is the most important thing you should work on. You need to be on flirt mode all the time, and feel like an attractive
and confident man.  Remember, your feelings and beliefs affect your body language. If you want women to perceive you as a male of value you need to send the right signals, through non-verbal channels.

You should keep a playful mood at all times. Don't let the little things of life get in your way. If you are happy, all the time, women will assume that you are in control of your life, and they find that very attractive. Angry guys are not in control; they give away their power to external things. Remember, if you are not in control you won't have the girl.

  
Dress like a king, always
 
It doesn't matter if you are going out for a cup of coffee, to walk the dog, or to take out the garbage. You need to dress like a king at all times. Again, you don't know when, or where, you are going to meet gorgeous women, and remember, you
only have one chance to make that first impression.


Your style

It has a big impact on how you feel. If you take care of your appearance your body language will improve. People will respect you, and your decisions more, so take this seriously. If you want women to remember you, in a good way, you need to stand out. Most guys will only take care of their appearance when they go to a bar or club. If you show the best version of yourself at all times you will have a lot of advantage.

 
Finally, use cologne
 
Women will learn to relate you to the fragrance that you wear. Every time she smells the same fragrance, or a similar, she will
think of you. Besides, once again this is a great way to stand out, and differentiate you from the rest. You not only need to make a great first impression, you need  to make it last.


Author:
Luigi Carucci
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