We've all been there before. I know I have and there's no shame in admitting
it. You're in bed with a beautiful woman in naught but your boxers and stripped
of all your defenses. You think things are going well, the action is hot and
heavy, and the two of you have waited long enough.
Just about when you're ready to pull out the condom, she says those dreaded
words, "You know we're NOT having sex, right?" Seriously, the two of you are
practically naked together and all of a sudden she's being coy and
non-committal? Is she playing mind games with you?
No, she just has Last Minute Resistance (LMR) and it's your job to keep your
cool, not play the guilt or blame game, and press forward with these three
advanced anti-LMR tactics that are guaranteed to get her to say YES! in bed with
you. At every confidence & seduction bootcamp I've ever done when it comes
to the E-Phase (Evaluate, Extract & Escalate) I always reminded students
that LMR (Last Minute Resistance or Reservations) is not anyone's fault: It is
the biology of women kick starting their last-ditch attempts at ASD (Anti-Slut
Defense).
This is to say that instincts tell a girl that she's not ready to have sex
yet (after such a short period of time) because of all the hazards it presents
to her mind and body:
Of course, because a dating expert, we teach them methods to get around that
obsolete biological response by assuaging her logical fears and enabling her
physical desires so she becomes absolutely hot and crazy for you. The methods we
teach in group bootcamps and private 1-on-1s were always very useful to me and,
of the three methods we teach, I've almost always had to use one or another to
disengage a girl's LMR.
Recently, I got to meet up with an absolutely stunning girl I had met online
a long time ago (a friend of a friend). Super hot. She's a gorgeous, Latin
brunette and I am currently looking at a picture of her in a swimsuit calendar
on my wall. That hot. However, she's also very sceptical about sexual
relationships and has always held me at arms length.
We had talked about sex many times and she was always shut off from, what
other girls call, "My intense charm". Incredibly hard to gain any sexual ground
with, she had only had sex with 3 people before and was devout about how she
needed to be in a relationship with someone for a long time before she would
ever engage in anything coital. In fact, I thought it would be detrimental to
our friendship to even try to engage in physicality on the first night we met,
so I didn't even plan on pushing things.
Because I have the skills that I do, I am not starving for sex, so I had no
problem slow-gaming this girl. That being said, hopping into bed with me, even
if just to fall asleep - like this time, starts my biological gears turning and,
much like a military machine, these gears are connected to PUA cogs that engage
the skills that I have practiced and perfected all over the world. I was out to
destroy LMR and it was completely subconscious.
Though I had to use all three of our methods on one of the toughest
situations I've been in, I'll tell you how I did it, step-by-step.
Step 1) Preemptive Anti-Last Minute Resistance:
This is the step we use when first dealing with the idea of LMR. Pre-emptive
measures are those that we dispense in order to combat even the thought of her
needing to reject us.
For instance, if you tell a girl she has to sleep on the couch, or that you
have work early in the morning, it will subconsciously register as a sort of
rejection. After all, if you're telling her you have to get to bed early, it's
clear that you don't have hours of animalistic sex in mind, right? In this case,
I flat-out told her that I wouldn't have sex with her because she'd already had
too much to drink.
At the time, she was drunk, but not drunk enough that I would question her
morals. In fact, I think that alcohol played little-to-no part in the decision
making process. She actually tried to combat my rejection by rejecting me (e.g.
"Well, I'm not going to have sex with you, anyway."). It was important that I
stop her before she made it about rejecting me, thereby losing control.
To do this, I actually just said, "Stop. This isn't about you rejecting me or
about me rejecting you. I am just not going to have sex with you, so appreciate
that we think the same way and stop being defensive." This pretty much shut her
up and gave her time to stew on the idea that she didn't have to object to my
sexual advances, which was clearly something she didn't get often.
She did not like this idea.
Step 2) Cold Anti-Last Minute Resistance:
This is the standard Freeze-Out Technique we've all read about in The Game,
the purpose of which is to turn her on a bit and stop when she says no, leaving
her, essentially, stewing in her own juices.
Because this tactic was invented for this type of girl (super hot, generally
valued for her looks), it went completely by the book: When she said "no", I
stopped, rolled over, and checked my phone. She asked me, "You're mad, aren't
you?" I replied, "No. I'm not mad, I just respect when a woman says no. Don't
worry. We're not having sex tonight, anyway." Big smile. She starts fooling
around again. Wash. Rinse. Repeat.
In between a few of these bouts, I also brought a bit of pre-emptive LMR
Logic in, something I'm extremely good at:
This is all very powerful stuff and, frankly, I believe everything I said to
her. I did (and still do) care about her immensely and was (and still am)
extremely attracted to her. I knew I wouldn't hurt her and that I wasn't
interested in sex just to use her, but that I genuinely wanted to share a
no-holds-barred experience with her because of how much I enjoy her as a
person.
I am not just, "Saying stuff to fuck her" and I'll admit that to anyone that
asks.
Step 3) Hot Anti-Last Minute Resistance:
The purpose of this last stage of Anti-LMR is to turn her on so much, that
she's not using her logical mind. All the, "Will I get pregnant?" and "Does this
make me a slut?" thoughts are gone and she is only doing what her body tells
her is good for her.
In this case, her body will want as much of me as possible, and I'll tell you
why. After all the thoughts were stirred and all my cards were on the table, I
told her I was completely fine just kissing her. She told me she wouldn't even
take off her shirt and I told her that was totally cool by me, but did that mean
all skin showing was fair game? "Yes," She said.
I then proceed to:
I told her, several times, that, "I'm not going to fuck you because I made a
promise to you."
Pretty soon she was on top of me, grinding her pubic bone against me and
peeling off the rest of her clothing. The more I said "No", the more she begged.
After I finally knew she wasn't doing it to prove a point, I let her have it
and, four orgasms later, we moved to the other bed in the room (hotel, of
course), on account of having destroyed the first one. We teaches this stuff
because we've used it and knows it works. I teach this stuff because I've used
it and I know it works. Use it because we teach it and it works.
Author: JT Tran
Source: Link
it. You're in bed with a beautiful woman in naught but your boxers and stripped
of all your defenses. You think things are going well, the action is hot and
heavy, and the two of you have waited long enough.
Just about when you're ready to pull out the condom, she says those dreaded
words, "You know we're NOT having sex, right?" Seriously, the two of you are
practically naked together and all of a sudden she's being coy and
non-committal? Is she playing mind games with you?
No, she just has Last Minute Resistance (LMR) and it's your job to keep your
cool, not play the guilt or blame game, and press forward with these three
advanced anti-LMR tactics that are guaranteed to get her to say YES! in bed with
you. At every confidence & seduction bootcamp I've ever done when it comes
to the E-Phase (Evaluate, Extract & Escalate) I always reminded students
that LMR (Last Minute Resistance or Reservations) is not anyone's fault: It is
the biology of women kick starting their last-ditch attempts at ASD (Anti-Slut
Defense).
This is to say that instincts tell a girl that she's not ready to have sex
yet (after such a short period of time) because of all the hazards it presents
to her mind and body:
- Pregnancy
- Abandonment
- Social Repercussions (ie being called a slut)
Of course, because a dating expert, we teach them methods to get around that
obsolete biological response by assuaging her logical fears and enabling her
physical desires so she becomes absolutely hot and crazy for you. The methods we
teach in group bootcamps and private 1-on-1s were always very useful to me and,
of the three methods we teach, I've almost always had to use one or another to
disengage a girl's LMR.
Recently, I got to meet up with an absolutely stunning girl I had met online
a long time ago (a friend of a friend). Super hot. She's a gorgeous, Latin
brunette and I am currently looking at a picture of her in a swimsuit calendar
on my wall. That hot. However, she's also very sceptical about sexual
relationships and has always held me at arms length.
We had talked about sex many times and she was always shut off from, what
other girls call, "My intense charm". Incredibly hard to gain any sexual ground
with, she had only had sex with 3 people before and was devout about how she
needed to be in a relationship with someone for a long time before she would
ever engage in anything coital. In fact, I thought it would be detrimental to
our friendship to even try to engage in physicality on the first night we met,
so I didn't even plan on pushing things.
Because I have the skills that I do, I am not starving for sex, so I had no
problem slow-gaming this girl. That being said, hopping into bed with me, even
if just to fall asleep - like this time, starts my biological gears turning and,
much like a military machine, these gears are connected to PUA cogs that engage
the skills that I have practiced and perfected all over the world. I was out to
destroy LMR and it was completely subconscious.
Though I had to use all three of our methods on one of the toughest
situations I've been in, I'll tell you how I did it, step-by-step.
Step 1) Preemptive Anti-Last Minute Resistance:
This is the step we use when first dealing with the idea of LMR. Pre-emptive
measures are those that we dispense in order to combat even the thought of her
needing to reject us.
For instance, if you tell a girl she has to sleep on the couch, or that you
have work early in the morning, it will subconsciously register as a sort of
rejection. After all, if you're telling her you have to get to bed early, it's
clear that you don't have hours of animalistic sex in mind, right? In this case,
I flat-out told her that I wouldn't have sex with her because she'd already had
too much to drink.
At the time, she was drunk, but not drunk enough that I would question her
morals. In fact, I think that alcohol played little-to-no part in the decision
making process. She actually tried to combat my rejection by rejecting me (e.g.
"Well, I'm not going to have sex with you, anyway."). It was important that I
stop her before she made it about rejecting me, thereby losing control.
To do this, I actually just said, "Stop. This isn't about you rejecting me or
about me rejecting you. I am just not going to have sex with you, so appreciate
that we think the same way and stop being defensive." This pretty much shut her
up and gave her time to stew on the idea that she didn't have to object to my
sexual advances, which was clearly something she didn't get often.
She did not like this idea.
Step 2) Cold Anti-Last Minute Resistance:
This is the standard Freeze-Out Technique we've all read about in The Game,
the purpose of which is to turn her on a bit and stop when she says no, leaving
her, essentially, stewing in her own juices.
Because this tactic was invented for this type of girl (super hot, generally
valued for her looks), it went completely by the book: When she said "no", I
stopped, rolled over, and checked my phone. She asked me, "You're mad, aren't
you?" I replied, "No. I'm not mad, I just respect when a woman says no. Don't
worry. We're not having sex tonight, anyway." Big smile. She starts fooling
around again. Wash. Rinse. Repeat.
In between a few of these bouts, I also brought a bit of pre-emptive LMR
Logic in, something I'm extremely good at:
- I talked about how I was happy just kissing her, and that my desire for
sex wasn't a biological need, it was an appreciation for her and a desire
to be closer to her.
- I also talked about how this was the only June whatever, 2010 that we were
ever going to get and we are both the most attractive we will ever be, so we
might as well make the best of it. - When she brought up trust, I told her that I can't earn trust unless she
lets me prove that I'm trustworthy. - When she brought up other girls, I told her that if I wanted to be in bed
with other girls, I would be, but I was in bed with her, at that moment, with
the world at our fingertips.
This is all very powerful stuff and, frankly, I believe everything I said to
her. I did (and still do) care about her immensely and was (and still am)
extremely attracted to her. I knew I wouldn't hurt her and that I wasn't
interested in sex just to use her, but that I genuinely wanted to share a
no-holds-barred experience with her because of how much I enjoy her as a
person.
I am not just, "Saying stuff to fuck her" and I'll admit that to anyone that
asks.
Step 3) Hot Anti-Last Minute Resistance:
The purpose of this last stage of Anti-LMR is to turn her on so much, that
she's not using her logical mind. All the, "Will I get pregnant?" and "Does this
make me a slut?" thoughts are gone and she is only doing what her body tells
her is good for her.
In this case, her body will want as much of me as possible, and I'll tell you
why. After all the thoughts were stirred and all my cards were on the table, I
told her I was completely fine just kissing her. She told me she wouldn't even
take off her shirt and I told her that was totally cool by me, but did that mean
all skin showing was fair game? "Yes," She said.
I then proceed to:
- I kissed her neck and down across her collar bone.
- Over her tank-top strap and down her arm.
- I kissed down her upper-arm and began to nibble at the inside of her
elbow. - She exhaled, heavily. "Okay, I'm turned on."
- She quickly pulled off her tank-top.
- I had a much larger playing field, but I still had to take it slow.
- I'll spare you the details, but there was a lot of inner-thigh licking and
nibbling and blowing cold air over warm, wet spots and suddenly, she was begging
for me to get inside of her.
I told her, several times, that, "I'm not going to fuck you because I made a
promise to you."
Pretty soon she was on top of me, grinding her pubic bone against me and
peeling off the rest of her clothing. The more I said "No", the more she begged.
After I finally knew she wasn't doing it to prove a point, I let her have it
and, four orgasms later, we moved to the other bed in the room (hotel, of
course), on account of having destroyed the first one. We teaches this stuff
because we've used it and knows it works. I teach this stuff because I've used
it and I know it works. Use it because we teach it and it works.
Author: JT Tran
Source: Link
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